How To Be The Perfect Mom: The Blueprint
Motherhood started way before my son’s were born, in my mind I became a MOTHER the moment I was told I was pregnant. My Son’s Became My Reason, meaning they became my reason for breathing, became my reason for euphoria and became my reason for praying. I wanted to be the best mother I could be. Now, with that being said I knew I would never be a perfect mother, because there is no such thing but the closest thing to perfect I knew as a mother was my mother Edith Marie and I held her right under God. My Mother and my sister (Vera my one and only) were the ones, whose wisdom guided my ways of Motherhood. I Thank God for them, as they both played a vital part in my life; I needed them both in ways I never knew, how much they’ll never know. Thank You Momma & Sissy (r.i.p) 
With this indescribable amount of love for my sons both times I was pregnant without a question of a doubt I was ready to do whatever it took to make sure my sons were protected and loved. I never wanted them to doubt that feeling of love coming from me their Mother. I often tell people when talking about my son’s the pact I made with God each time my sons were born and I prayed telling God that he can do anything to me he wants just protect my son's, I asked him to put his loving arms around each one and keep them safe. Please allow them to become men and bless me to see them do so and God has honored my prayers being ever faithful to me.
I knew I was built for this job called being a Mother when I realized I would put My children’s life and happiness before my own. It’s so many titles that comes with that word MOTHER. I put it in capitals letters because it deserves that respect. I realized that I couldn’t be just one thing, yet I would wear multiply titles to fulfil this one title known as Mother. I wasn’t prepared to be any of these things but as time passed I became a provider, nurturer, caregiver and guardian. Loving, compassionate, endearing, kind, protective, strong, extraordinary, intuitive, caring, mindful and so much more.
As a young, married mother of two boys we grew together. I learned the true meaning of unconditional love, not from me loving my sons, but from my sons loving me. Without my boys I can truly say I don’t know where I would be. They give me courage when I am scared. They give me hope when I feel destitute. They make me laugh when the tears want to over flow. They push me when I say, “I can’t.” they say, “You will.” They fill me with joy when I feel there is no reason to smile. They keep me calm when the storms come. Finally they Love me faults and all, they accept my imperfections, they are my blessings from above.
If there was any advice I'd pass along to other moms I'd shared this very important lesson of forgiveness. Forgiveness towards one’s self. Along this journey we will make mistakes as Mothers that’s a given but if you look at your mistakes as lessons learned it will make things easier to accept, don’t be so hard on yourself. Not at any age do you stop being a MoM. You will always want to protect your children, you will always want to love and shelter them from all the chaos of the world. You will always hope they’ll find someone to love them just as much as you do (and they never will) lol. You will always want the best for them.
Let you make your own blueprint you’ll get it in your own way because every Woman’s journey will NEVER be the same and to our children believe it or not, we need you to need us just as much as we need you so please don’t take that totally away from us as you get older because in our eyes “You Will Aways Be Our Babies.” … Remember Nothing Beautiful is ever perfect. To the two that make me the happiest MaMa ever!
I Love You Marquel & Taviõn
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